Many people think that “real” life begins at a certain age or when certain milestones are reached. To some, these milestones could be when you begin college, start out in your career, when you finally get married, or start a family and so on. But to reach those milestones you have to stand at the starting line. What exactly is the starting line though?
The starting line is where you stand when you’re ready to set out for your first milestone and begin “real” life. What’s at the end is the inevitable fate for all people, but along the way there are new milestones with each being influenced in some way or form by previous ones. Just as if it were a race, you don’t stand at the starting line until you’ve got the right amount of preparation done. Money, skills, experience – once you’re confident enough with what you’ve got is when you can stand at the starting line in my opinion. Some people are thrown right at the starting line and told to race against the others, and while it is possible to get out there and start running, it might be a little tougher than usual to advance.
For those of us who subscribe to the mentality of reaching a certain milestone to start “real” life and be able to run from the starting line, life up until you get there can seem a little meaningless and dull at times. You know everything you’re doing is going towards the preparation for you to stand at the starting line, but especially when the time comes near for you to reach your milestone, you begin to get antsy about everything and want time to speed up for you. At least, that’s how I feel.
I think I’m really close to finally standing at the start line, and I’m just ready to get running on the path known as life.